The drums are quite sturdy, but the finish can get chipped if handled roughly.
Use a case when taking it out of the house.
Avoid getting it wet, won't hurt it much, but do dry it afterwards.
It eats beats :) feed regularly
Regarding the heads, i've had some drums for going on 15 years with the same head. You will only want to change it if its punctured or
lit cigarettes or incense, and people with drumsticks are its natural enemies